The Beauty of Being Alone - Solo Travel Adventures Across Asia

I recently came across an article from Essence magazine, entitled “Tracee Ellis Ross’s new series and the solo travel boom remind us: joy doesn’t need company. Experts weigh in on how to do it safely and the freedom in it.” You can read it here: essence.com. 

Reading it struck a deep chord with me because, in many ways, it echoed my own journey of travelling solo across 7 countries in Asia over the past 7 months. 

For years, I believed that the best adventures required companionship, that the joy of exploring was something to be shared. But stepping onto planes, trains, and boats alone across Asia taught me otherwise. From the bustling streets of Bangkok to the peaceful temples of Indonesia, I discovered that joy does not always require a travel companion. Sometimes, the most powerful moments come when you are alone, open, and free.

Why Solo Travel in Asia? Why Now?  

After my retirement, I carried a strong “do it now” mentality. Life has run out of excuses, and I refused to keep putting off the things I longed to do. Asia drew me in for its diversity: the colours of Malaysian markets, the stillness of South Korean gardens, the flavours of Thailand street food, and the spirituality of Indonesian Buddhist temples. 

Travelling alone gave me lessons no guidebook could. In crowded train stations, I learned patience. In silent temples, I found peace. In navigating streets/communities where I did not know the language(s), but built trust in myself. Each challenge is a reminder that I am capable, strong, learning, experiencing, and growing. 

Liberation Over Loneliness   One of the biggest misconceptions about solo travel is that it is lonely. I have had people ask, “Are you not lonely travelling alone?” as though I need someone else to appreciate the beauty in life. The truth is, I was already celebrating myself, living the moment exactly as it was meant to be. 

In Chiang Dao Thailand, I felt an incredible liberation staying alone at the jungle tree house, with the sounds of nature. I was not compromising my pace or plans. I was simply present. That freedom has been one of the greatest gifts of travelling alone.  

Lessons I Have Learned  

Solo travel is not without its challenges. Safety matters and preparation are non-negotiable. I always research cultural norms, safe neighbourhoods, and transport options. I have e- SIM for communications and necessary apps, keep loved ones updated, and stay aware of my surroundings. Far from limiting me, those steps give me the confidence to explore freely. 

I also believe in starting small. Before my first big international trip, I practised by going out to dinner alone, then taking weekend trips nearby. Each small step built my confidence until flying solo to another continent felt not only possible but exciting. 

Another lesson is that solo does not mean unsupported. Online communities like Solo Female Travelers Network, She Roams Solo, variety of Facebook groups and even meeting other travellers along the way, have been invaluable for tips, encouragement, and connection. Even when I board a plane alone, I know there are countless solo travelers (esp women) who have walked this path before me and are walking it alongside me.  

Luxury on My Own Terms  

The best part is that travelling solo allows me to define luxury for myself. Sometimes that means splurging on a boutique hotel in Japan. Other times, it is enjoying a luxury spa day in South Korea. It is the freedom to create joy on my own terms, whether it is journaling in a quiet café, meditating in a garden or chasing sunsets over tea fields. 

Solo travel has given me healing, perspective, and a renewed sense of self. It is not about being alone, it is about being fully present with myself, unfiltered and unafraid. 

For me, travelling solo across Asia is far more than taking a holiday. This journey is a reminder that I can choose joy, create freedom, and claim space for myself in the world.